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By Dan R Ebener

Yeshua Institute Fellow

Relationships are the stuff of leadership. A congregation is a web of relationships. To practice the people skills needed for leadership, ask yourself:

What kind of a human being do I need to become… so that I can practice leadership?

As Catholics, we are committed to inner change. Jesus calls us to form our hearts out of His love (Luke 10:27). Ashes during Lent are but one example of how we acknowledge that we are committed to change our hearts, our minds and ourselves to become better human beings.

Research shows that we can become compassionate communicators by nurturing an inner silence, being fully present to the moment and listening deeply to others. For Catholics, this entails a rich spiritual life of prayer and reflection on Scripture. Prayer has a powerful effect on the one who prays. It transforms our hearts, our minds and our actions.

Leadership is an inside-out activity. It begins with work on the inside and moves toward the outside. The formation of the heart is our path to leadership and to holiness. The heart is the place where we can find the quiet of the soul, where we connect with God and where we develop the capacity to know, love and serve each other – heart to heart – before we can lead each other.

Neuroscientists teach that the key to happy, healthy, spiritually fulfilling lives is forming the connections between the heart and the brain. When we actively participate in the Mass, pray the rosary with full consciousness or spend prayerful time in Eucharistic adoration, we strengthen the connections between our head and heart. 

Scripture teaches us to form our hearts in love, and then to listen to our carefully formed hearts, to be attentive to matters of the heart and intentional about following the message that the Spirit moves into our heart.

Forming the heart prepares us for leadership. To practice pastoral leadership, we must become human beings capable of relating heart to heart.   

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